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Singaporean Men, Young China Gals.
) View Listings | Report 02-08-06 15:24 MYT
Wat is wrong wif sg women tat makes sg men wanna spend so much $$ & time wif the young china gal?

Issit bcoz women in sg is so much stronger than men, emotionally & mentally tat men has to seek for attn elsewher?? Men, here's ur chance to speak up! ;)
Rediz-glow
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) View Listings | Report 02-08-06 15:48 MYT 1 of 29
No sex talk here.

Go ask those lau tiko ah pek or those straying husbands or those sex maniac and you will have your answer.

We are all decent people here.

Heehee.

) View Listings | Report 02-08-06 16:09 MYT 2 of 29
u again~~:O

btw, tis not goin to b a sex tok, mister. B-)
It's abt views. How abt u start the ball rollin? u r one of the SG men, arent u?
Rediz-glow

) View Listings | Report 02-08-06 16:43 MYT 3 of 29
I have no idea really. I am a decent guy. Heehee.

) View Listings | Report 02-08-06 16:56 MYT 4 of 29
how decent can a guy/men be when it comes to s*x or love?? U cld b some experts in disguise..heheheee B-)
Rediz-glow

) View Listings | Report 02-08-06 17:42 MYT 5 of 29
Aiyah. Ask those regulars & they will tell you I am decent lah. Heehee.

) View Listings | Report 02-08-06 22:45 MYT 6 of 29
L M A O

) View Listings | Report 03-08-06 01:35 MYT 7 of 29
It's a matter of choice.
I don't think they are as weak as sg women emotionally and mentally. Try leaving your home, fly to another country alone and smile to any strangers that cross your paths. B-)

) View Listings | Report 03-08-06 08:30 MYT 8 of 29
Smile in other countries & you are deemed to be trying to be friendly.

Smile in Singapore & woe to you for you are deemed to have ulterior motives. Coz even Singaporeans don't smile ya.

Hahaha.

) View Listings | Report 03-08-06 11:03 MYT 9 of 29
hahaa...tats quite true! My frenz frm foreign countries said SG'reans r so cold, if not, unfrendly..How come they dun smile? It's definately easier to smile than frown lor. :-D :^O :8} ;)
Rediz-glow

) View Listings | Report 03-08-06 17:05 MYT 10 of 29
You know, the gar-ment want to get 4 million smiles so easy. Just go to top of a tall building like OUB center & throw down $$ notes. I bet those below will be grinning like crazy!! Hahaha.

FYI, those who provided the smiles are really fakes. You look at their smiles, so disgusting. Not natural at all.

) View Listings | Report 04-08-06 00:37 MYT 11 of 29
No, people won't be happy if gahmen throw down the money. because they will be complaining why not direct deposit into their account.

As for why Singapore man not prefer sg woman. First of all, sg girls are too smart for their own good. China women are smarter but they act more blur. "ie act like a pig to eat the tiger".

China girls also work harder, sg girls demand their guys to work harder.

) View Listings | Report 04-08-06 11:35 MYT 12 of 29
ideasmiths, thanx for the reply & ya, u cld b rite..we might be too smart for our own good..but, if u notice, those women whose husbands go for younger china women, r not the newer generations. So, this theory dun really apply. :8}

As for simon_lyt, there r really some whose smiles comes frm within their heart de..Im one of them..wuahaha:^O
Rediz-glow

) View Listings | Report 04-08-06 12:39 MYT 13 of 29
Hmm. See your ' :^O ' is already so fake. heehee.

) View Listings | Report 04-08-06 13:40 MYT 14 of 29
its a matter of perspective. i wont blame u de.
:-p
Rediz-glow

) View Listings | Report 04-08-06 15:04 MYT 15 of 29
Heehee.

) View Listings | Report 11-08-06 13:15 MYT 16 of 29
actually it is not so much that singapore gals are much stronger than singapore men. u just need to understand men, that's all. men are as complex as women. men want women to share their life with. singapore girls just happen to be more independent than china gals. generally, men's desire can be 'activated' almost immediately, whilst women's desire needs a bit more coaxing. with the china gal (generally) they are here to make a living (call it a fast buck, if u like). so they tend to entertain men's desire as and when the men want it. this will be a perennial problem. the china gal is waiting for a 'catch' that will take care of them. guess, it is becos their life is not as comfortable as singaporeans. so, now that there's an opportunity to catch a chinese man in singapore, she will go for it. blame it on our standard of living, if u want. let's reverse the situation and singapore's standard of livng is like that of china and vice versa. singapore gals are then likely to try to 'catch' a china man to take care of their life. u want to blame it on men? i guess u if u want to...traditionally men has been the one to bring home the bread...so i guess that's why the china gals are going after the men...if the gals are bringing in the bread, i wouldnt be surprised that they can be a few men who wouldnt mind going after the gal...well...there's still the problem of the men's ego...he may not go after the rich gal, after all...so as not to be teased by his peers...usually the time n money spent on the china gal is only temporary...at t end of the day, the men wd still go back to t family (wife)...provided the china gal doesnt have a super strong grip on the man...

) View Listings | Report 15-08-06 14:12 MYT 17 of 29
Wow~~~~jasmibht...Im speechless..:|
Thanx for tat post. U hav made me see the other side of the thing..
Rediz-glow

) View Listings | Report 16-08-06 11:08 MYT 18 of 29
Well said, jasmibht. Though the issue with man returning to their family at the end of the day, to put it mildly, is very questionable. :-D

) View Listings | Report 17-08-06 21:42 MYT 19 of 29
Many china women in sg are more daring in dressing up than local sg women, though the C.W. may speaks loudly in public plcaes, but they do know how to make the sg men happy. You can observe their conversation either in public or even while they talked to the mobile phones.

Sg women seem to keep complain all the time...that make sg men want to find C.W. as friends...even just a chit chat friends. Lots of sweet talks are involved...before an affair get started.;)

Whether sg women or men, we live in a very tiny lttle spot...things get breathless due to work, peer pressure..
so sg men (usually all those ah bei) shift toward sweet-tougue china women.

) View Listings | Report 07-09-06 14:18 MYT 20 of 29
Hope this reply still comes in time.

Very intereesting topic, and very close to my heart and and my job, so can't help but jut in at this moment to say some words! ;)

I agree with ideasmiths that sg women can be too smart for their own good. At the same time, why are the men smitten with those CW is because the CW has recognised a fact, that our SG men are good catch!

They are, because most of them have a sense of responsibility towards the family and they know what is commitment.

I have heard of too many examples of how sg men are "tempted" by CW without even knowing it. Those CW are too good in their skills that it has become so natural for them that the guys don't find them fake.

However, I also know some men who will not fall for their tactics, because they are educated enough and heard enough testimonies to know the fate these men landed are usually in a sorry state. So, they have a good sense of control.

Ultimately, it still boils down to the relationship you have with your husband. If the couple take the effort to apply those principles to build a lasting and loving relationship, then why would the men want to search for another alternative, when he has gained all he wanted in a relationship from his own marriage?

Temptations are everywhere. Whether or not one will succumb to depends on how strong our own foundation is to start with.

) View Listings | Report 08-09-06 13:49 MYT 21 of 29
"Never trust a pretty face !!!" :-D

) View Listings | Report 25-09-06 08:53 MYT 22 of 29
if these china women and s'porean men were to frequent ebay.sg then i think there is a market for us to sell sexy lingerings and novoties toys... hahahaha...

) View Listings | Report 25-09-06 08:54 MYT 23 of 29
Let turn this into an opportunities... ;)

) View Listings | Report 04-11-06 23:07 MYT 24 of 29
sg men dont think they r spending money on cw. no one can make them c it cos cw r jus too smart at doing that. sg women have to learn to be that smart at bluffing our men... that takes more than 10 yrs of living amongst beautiful cw n being a dime a dozen... n find a way to shine... give it up sg women... it takes only the men to be cheated emotionally, monetary b4 they get it.

) View Listings | Report 01-07-07 13:05 MYT 25 of 29
i work in the the airport and personally i dun like these CW. all so noisy and calculative. every single penny also wan to calculate with u. duuno wat these sg men see in them.

) View Listings | Report 05-07-07 01:16 MYT 26 of 29
Same as how the Westerners see Singaporeans. So K.S and rude and socially unfriendly....

Of course Singaporeans still do marry Singaporeans as do PRC to "PRC-ians". It is all a matter of being born into and getting used to... :)

I am just wondering did our forefathers behave like that when they just arrive from China, almost without money...

) View Listings | Report 30-08-07 12:59 MYT 27 of 29
I think it is difficult for a SG man to resist the temptation of CW. They are far superior in the skill of deception compared with our SG men who are not adept in distilling realities.

) View Listings | Report 14-07-08 19:42 MYT 28 of 29
"I think it is difficult for a SG man to resist the temptation of CW. They are far superior in the skill of deception compared with our SG men who are not adept in distilling realities"

HAHAHA!!!!

) View Listings | Report 23-07-08 01:39 MYT 29 of 29
Maybe:

CW goes, "Yes, darling.... sure, darling..... i get it for u darling..... massage ur tired feet, darling? ...... ok darling ...... more coffee? more tea? ..... yes sir ... i mean darling."

And Sg woman goes, "Sweetie, can u get this for me... get that for me..... hv u paid the bills..... my pocket money? .... heres the bill for my shopping spree..... can u get me a cup of coffee pls..... oh, do it urself..... im tired too.... i was busy at work too...... morning darling, my coffee? im going to the spa, cud u look after the children pls..... im in a rush, cud u iron ur own shirt? ... im in a rush, cud u iron my blouse for me... honey, im going to do some shopping, cud u mop the floor since u hv nothing to do at home... "

u think so?

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